Millions are impressed by the victories of power and take it for the sign of strength. To be sure, power over people is an expression of superior strength in a purely material sense. If I have the power over another person to kill him, I am "stronger" than he is. But in a psychological sense, the lust for power is not rooted in strength but in weakness. It is the expression of inability of the individual self to stand alone and live. It is the desperate attempt to gain secondary strength where genuine strength is lacking. Erich Fromm
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When we see someone with a lot of power, we often jump to the conclusion that said person is strong and powerful. This is not always the case. While power does give you the ability to force others to behave in a way you want them to, it's the expression of your own weakness. Though by all rights you should be capable of doing things on your own, in reality you need others around you because being alone means being held back from all the things you want to do in life.

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